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It just came to my mind：
Q1. Do you compliment yourself? When was the last time you compliment yourself? Do you feel shy about that?
In my point of view, complimenting is the capability of knowing the good; I compliment myself and I won’t feel shy about that, I define it as a capability of self-admiration, and it is also a required ability of being confident, as important as confessing and laughing at our own weakness. The last time was on 2022/1/13, I promoted page [ Resume Chit-chat ] of this website to my friends and they felt it useful. I feel myself amazing, building up a blog and achieving my own mission impossible, more than that, I shared a post successfully! Thank Google provides this blog platform, thank my friends’ recognition, thank myself, and thank all those people brought me these knowledge that I can share today.
Do you compliment yourself? What’s your idea?
Q2.Do you compliment others? When is the last time you give complimenting sincerely? To whom? What’s the motive or conditions? Is it possible it matches all your conditions but you reject to compliment them?
In some aspects, I admire other’ achievements, concepts, improvements and all those can’t be done easily and have positive impact on things; when someone completes something, I compliment them in the presence of it, directly and naturally, it means I recognize this work result, they don’t need to give me anything in return, it’s just a kind of straight forward reaction. I frequently click Thumbs-Up or Comment in Linkedin to express my affirmation to others, I also do it today.
In my neighborhood, there was a little boy, he was at the bottom in his class in exam, the 43 th ,but improved to be the 38th.! The teacher gave him the "Best Self Advancement Adward". I praised him for his excellence. The little boy was very happy then. I hope he finds it fun to work hard, and he improves to be better and better.
In the past, one of my colleague shared his idea, he avoided complimenting a competitor in the workplace, even if the opponent did a great job, he would not praise him; he felt admitting being defeated if he compliments the competitor, and he felt a little pleasant when he saw the competitor failed to win the promotion, he also felt this kind of mindset is weird.
I replied, complimenting, it is similar to jewelry appraisal💎, to know 「and recognize」the value of the gem, or, no value, no matter where the place of origin is, and good is good, bad is bad, it is naturally what it is, truth will not disappear because it is avoided, so does our own capability, it will not be enhanced if we ignore other’s achievements. Feeling happy to know others are unsuccessful? Maybe…….to be honest, you’re always jealous of him?
Jealousy makes us feel drained, it consumes energy and mind efforts. When it is obviously others are better than us, I think we don’t need to go round and round and tell ourselves they have that kind of ability “only”…….we need to be honest to ourselves.
In your opinion, do you think there is problem in my idea?
I do hope this post can bring you some idea. Sincerely complimenting others, bring sunshine🌞 to the team, invest ourselves positive energy.
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